你见过你伴侣的父母吗？感觉怎么样？

讨论问题

1.你见过你伴侣的父母吗？感觉怎么样？
Have you ever met your partner's parents? How was it?
2.在你的国家，见伴侣的父母有习俗吗？
Are there traditions in your home country when meeting the partner's parents?
3.你和年长者交谈时会使用正式的‘您’吗？
Do you use the formal 'Sie' in your language when speaking with older people?
4.你会和父母一起吃饭或喝饮料吗？
Would you have a meal or drink with the parents?
5.这种情况让你紧张吗，还是比较放松？
Do such situations make you nervous, or are you relaxed?
6.在交谈中，你可以聊些什么？有什么话题是不能谈的？
What topics can you talk about during the conversation? What should you not talk about?
7.你应该带礼物吗？
Should you bring gifts?
8.父母会和你一样紧张吗？
Are the parents just as nervous as you?
9.在一些文化中，伴侣的父母只有在他们决定结婚后才会见面。在你的文化中是怎么样的？
In some cultures, the parents of the couple only meet when the couple has decided to get married. How is it in your culture?
10.你会选择伴侣基于他们的父母吗？
Would you choose a partner based on their parents?
11.你对包办婚姻有什么看法？
What do you think about arranged marriages?

良好的印象 (liánghǎo de yìnxiàng) - good impression

礼物 (lǐwù) - gifts

打破僵局 (dǎpò jiāngjú) - break the ice

感到紧张 (gǎndào jǐnzhāng) - feel nervous

为见面做准备 (wèi jiànmiàn zuò zhǔnbèi) - prepare for the meeting

表达感谢 (biǎodá gǎnxiè) - express appreciation

闲聊 (xiánliáo) - small talk

打破沉默 (dǎpò chénmò) - break the silence

提问 (tíwèn) - ask questions

礼貌 (lǐmào) - be polite

彼此了解 (bǐcǐ liǎojiě) - get to know each other

介绍 (jièshào) - introduce

赞美 (zànměi) - compliment

分享 (fēnxiǎng) - share

礼貌的 (lǐmào de) - polite

有趣的 (yǒuqù de) - interesting

难忘的 (nánwàng de) - memorable

尊重的 (zūnzhòng de) - respectful

我见过我伴侣的父母，感觉非常愉快。

Yes, I have met my partner's parents and it was very pleasant.

在我的国家，拜访父母时有带礼物的传统。

In my home country, there is a tradition to bring a gift when visiting the parents.

是的，我在和年长者交谈时会使用正式的‘您’。

Yes, I use the formal 'Sie' when speaking to older people.

我希望和伴侣的父母一起分享一顿饭。

I would like to share a meal with my partner's parents.

这种情况有时让我紧张，但我努力保持冷静。

Such situations sometimes make me nervous, but I try to stay calm.