如何安慰朋友

Discussion Questions

1.如果你的朋友和男朋友分手了，你会如何安慰她？
How would you comfort your friend if she broke up with her boyfriend?
2.有哪些好的建议可以帮助哭泣的孩子？
What are some good tips for helping a crying child?
3.当你身边有人情感受伤时，你怎么反应？
How do you react when someone in your environment is emotionally hurt?
4.你觉得提供安慰困难吗？为什么？
Do you think it's difficult to provide comfort? Why or why not?
5.同理心在安慰人时扮演什么角色？
What role does empathy play in comforting people?
6.如果你的伴侣告诉你和他老板进行了一次充满冲突的谈话，你会怎么做？
What would you do if your partner told you about a conflict-laden conversation with his boss?
7.你相信你总能找到合适的话来安慰某人吗？为什么？
Do you believe you can always find the right words to comfort someone? Why or why not?
8.在安慰的时候身体的亲密度（如：拥抱）有多重要？
How important is physical closeness (e.g., hugs) when comforting?
9.你在被安慰时有哪些个人经历？
What personal experiences have you had in which you yourself were comforted?
10.你怎么区别“安慰”和“平静”？
How do you find the difference between 'comforting' and 'calming'?

悲伤 (bēishāng) - sadness

安慰 (ānwèi) - comfort

安慰 (ānwèi) - to comfort

同理心 (tónglǐxīn) - empathy

失去 (shīqù) - loss

平静 (píngjìng) - to calm down

拥抱 (yōngbào) - hug

毛绒玩具 (máoróng wánjù) - stuffed animal

朋友 (péngyǒu) - friend

最终 (zuìzhōng) - finally

发生在你身上的事真可怕，我会在你身边支持你。

It's really terrible what happened to you. I'm here for you.

有时候只是谈论这件事会有所帮助。你现在感觉怎么样？

Sometimes it helps to just talk about it. How do you feel right now?

我相信你和你的力量。

I believe in you and your strength.

别担心，一切都会好的。

Don't worry, everything will be fine.

如果你愿意，我可以帮你找找你的毛绒玩具。

If you want, I can help you look for your stuffed animal.