你见过你伴侣的父母吗？

Discussion Questions

1.你见过你伴侣的父母吗？感觉怎么样？
Have you ever met your partner's parents? How was it?
2.在你国家，有哪些见伴侣父母的传统？
Are there traditions in your home country when meeting the partner's parents?
3.你在和年长者交流时会用正式的“您”吗？
Do you use the formal 'Sie' in your language when speaking with older people?
4.你愿意和父母一起吃饭或喝东西吗？
Would you have a meal or drink with the parents?
5.这样的情况会让你紧张，还是你很放松？
Do such situations make you nervous, or are you relaxed?
6.在谈话中可以聊哪些话题？有什么是不应该聊的？
What topics can you talk about during the conversation? What should you not talk about?
7.你应该带礼物吗？
Should you bring gifts?
8.父母会和你一样紧张吗？
Are the parents just as nervous as you?
9.在某些文化中，情侣的父母只有在决定结婚时才会见面。在你的文化中呢？
In some cultures, the parents of the couple only meet when the couple has decided to get married. How is it in your culture?
10.你有什么建议可以在第一次见伴侣的父母时留下好印象？
What are your tips for making a good impression when first meeting a partner's parents?

冰 (bīng) - ice

礼物 (lǐwù) - gift

传统 (chuántǒng) - tradition

准备 (zhǔnbèi) - to prepare oneself

挑剔 (tiāotì) - petty

紧张 (jǐnzhāng) - nervousness

尊重 (zūnzhòng) - respect

谈话 (tánhuà) - conversation

开放 (kāifàng) - open

友好 (yǒuhǎo) - friendly

留下好印象很重要。

Making a good impression is important.

带个小礼物是礼貌的。

It is polite to bring a small gift.

我有时在见到新人时感到紧张。

I sometimes feel nervous when I meet new people.

闲聊可以帮助打破沉默。

Small talk can help break the silence.

问问题显示你对对方的兴趣。

Asking questions shows interest in the other person.