和同事之间发生过争执吗？

Discussion Questions

1.你有过与同事产生压力的经历吗？
Have you ever had stress with a work colleague?
2.当同事向其他同事或上司拍马屁时，你觉得不舒服吗？
Do you find it uncomfortable when work colleagues suck up to other colleagues or supervisors?
3.当同事磨蹭或者假装忙碌时，你有什么感受？
How do you feel when work colleagues stall for time or just pretend to be busy?
4.如果同事的某个行为让你感到困扰，你会怎么处理？
How do you address it when something about a colleague bothers you?
5.同事之间的差异可以让团队变得更好吗？
Can it be enriching when work colleagues are different?
6.如果我的行为让同事感到不适，他们希望我如何与他们沟通？
How would you like colleagues to approach you if something about your behavior makes them uncomfortable?
7.你有没有希望某位同事换工作的想法？
Have you ever wished that a work colleague would change jobs?
8.有哪些同事的行为是你完全无法忍受的？
What behavior from work colleagues can you not stand at all?
9.你想象中的理想同事是怎样的？
How do you imagine an optimal work colleague?
10.你有什么策略来解决与同事之间的冲突？
What strategies do you have to resolve conflicts with work colleagues?

压力 (yālì) - stress

拍马屁 (pāimǎpì) - flattery

拖延 (tuōyán) - to stall

行为 (xíngwéi) - behavior

打扰 (dǎrǎo) - to disturb

有益的 (yǒuyì de) - rewarding, beneficial

忍受 (rěnshòu) - to stand, endure

冲突 (chōngtú) - conflict

沟通 (gōutōng) - communication

合作 (hézuò) - collaboration

我发现自己很难建设性地处理冲突。

I find it difficult to deal constructively with conflicts.

公开谈论问题非常重要。

It is important to speak openly about problems.

我很重视合作中的多样性。

I value diversity in collaboration.

我能做些什么来支持你们在压力下的工作？

How can I support you when you are stressed?

客观地讨论分歧是有帮助的。

It is helpful to address disagreements objectively.